There are days in the life of a person who has ME/CFS/CFIDS, one becomes over-sensitized by seemingly everything: noise, light, information, surroundings, and clothing. Fibromyalgia patients have the same problems. My doctor said I have both, but really I wonder if it is one neurological disease that affects many parts of my body.
What I have learned is I can accomplish many things in baby steps. This keeps life's challenges and chores from being overwhelming, as well as making them more pleasurable. This is why I keep writing and sharing, hoping you will be encouraged to join the dance of balance and grace.
Sunday, March 31, 2013
Tuesday, March 26, 2013
Decluttering With A Timer
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| Image: Balancing Act by D. Bolton |
Decluttering with a Timer
- This is not a race! The timer is being used, so you know when to stop.
- A timer is a tool to encourage you to work in an amount of time that will not wear you out psychologically or physically. The timer is your friend, not your competitor.
- Breathe. I began taking slow deep breaths in my closet when I realized what was hPpening.
- If you give out before the timer does ( I am talking about legs shaking, body says sit), Stop. The clutter won't run away, and you can come back to it later.
- Work in increments of 5 to 15 minutes. I have found I can start with 5 minutes or less after a flare-up (relapse), and that gives my muscles a chance to grow stronger. If I jump into things too quickly, I end up too tired to do anything and discouraged. As I grow stronger, I can add more minutes.
- Sometimes, you can go to a less physical activity after doing something that requires a lot of effort, but listen to your body. You should take breaks.
- The rules here are not ironclad, but they are a guide to help you pace yourself. Sometimes, I am able to go past 15 minutes, but I often pay for that by being more fatigued the next day.
Thursday, March 21, 2013
What Happens in the Brain of a Fibromyalgia Patient
Last night, I saw a video that was shocking, but it was a vindication for anyone that has ever been told Fibromyalgia is "all in your head." Guess what! It is in your head, but not as in being a hypochondriac.
Now, I am only telling you the first part of what I understand. Patrick B. Wood, M.D. is the person that can explain what is going on in our brains. I am so excited to have been introduced to the work he is doing. I am giving you a link to the first video I saw of him explaining what goes on in the brain of someone who has Fibromyalgia. I am looking forward to seeing the rest.
Now, I am only telling you the first part of what I understand. Patrick B. Wood, M.D. is the person that can explain what is going on in our brains. I am so excited to have been introduced to the work he is doing. I am giving you a link to the first video I saw of him explaining what goes on in the brain of someone who has Fibromyalgia. I am looking forward to seeing the rest.
Thursday, March 14, 2013
Weak Muscles? Or Just A Feeling?
Despite the fog that eventually surrounds my brain after reading reports on medical research concerning muscle weakness in Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, I have come away with a couple of ideas concerning muscle weakness.
First of all there are different types of muscle weakness: true and perceived. What I was thinking about today is how much muscle weakness in Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is actual physical weakness and how much is perceived by our brain to be weakness. I don't know about you, but nobody has actually tested my muscle strength in different situations or during a flare-up. I may have pushed on the doctor's hand or something as she pushed back, but I don't remember. One thing I do know is I have never been hooked up to any monitors or any devices that would empirically compile evidence for actual muscle strength. The only thing I have to go by is how I feel.
However, after leaving the house for the first time in two months, I am convinced that my muscle strength is definitely affected after this last flare-up. All I did was go to the hair salon and walk around the corner to a small antique mall. But it was hard: I got very shaky the more I walked about, and then I began to lightly perspire, and I felt quite pale. I was glad I could make it back to the car, and I live in a small town. So it did not take long to get home.
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First of all there are different types of muscle weakness: true and perceived. What I was thinking about today is how much muscle weakness in Chronic Fatigue Syndrome is actual physical weakness and how much is perceived by our brain to be weakness. I don't know about you, but nobody has actually tested my muscle strength in different situations or during a flare-up. I may have pushed on the doctor's hand or something as she pushed back, but I don't remember. One thing I do know is I have never been hooked up to any monitors or any devices that would empirically compile evidence for actual muscle strength. The only thing I have to go by is how I feel.
However, after leaving the house for the first time in two months, I am convinced that my muscle strength is definitely affected after this last flare-up. All I did was go to the hair salon and walk around the corner to a small antique mall. But it was hard: I got very shaky the more I walked about, and then I began to lightly perspire, and I felt quite pale. I was glad I could make it back to the car, and I live in a small town. So it did not take long to get home.
Have you had similar experiences? Join me on facebook, so we can talk about it:
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